Here's the thing about wedding ceremonies: so much of it can be the same. The same structure. The same readings. The same music playing as you walk down the aisle. None of that makes your ceremony yours.

There's only one part of the day that is completely, unmistakably you — the words you say to each other. Your vows.

That's why I don't work from a template and drop your names in. I build every ceremony from scratch, shaped entirely around the two people standing in front of me. Your story, your humor, your history, the way you talk to each other — that's what the ceremony is made of. So when it comes time for your vows, they don't feel like a separate, sentimental add-on. They feel like the natural center of a day that was already about you.

Because your ceremony should be as unique as your relationship. Just like your vows.